Possible failure is the only way to learn. I can only read so much and then do what
I want using some or ten thoughts on the subject.
I've never liked being told what to do since I can remember, even my youth.
Any recipe is just a starting point.
I even argue with myself about what I should do,
I'd rather eat glass than grocery shop so I put it off forever, then actually enjoy it
when I finally talk myself into it.