This is a huge opportunity for others to step in and shepherd a tomato event. It's really not *that* tricky, especially if you aren't bringing a lot of tomatoes. It's just a matter of picking a date (1 of 3 weekends), a location (usually a state park), paying the deposit, and then announcing the event. Then the night before the event -- packing your car is with everything you need so you can get up and, without being too stressed out, hop in the car and drive to the event and have plenty of time to setup.
Build it and they will come.